THE UNCONSCIOUS LEADER

You lead people.
What's leading you?

Work, family and everything you carry can start to blur together. You give so much and still question whether you’re doing a good job.

THE INNER SHIFT

Lead well.
Live fully.

Make decisions you trust, focus on what matters for your team, and finish the day with energy for the people and life you love.

Make decisions without replaying them all evening.

Say what you need without preparing a defence.

Know when to push and when to pull back.

Finish the day with energy and presence for your family, rest and the life beyond work.

THE DUAL LENS

Understand yourself.
Understand the system.

Explore the habits, expectations and systems shaping your decisions. Work with your strategic plan to choose where to push, where to pull back, what to delegate and what needs to change.

The Unconscious Leader Method.

You say yes in the meeting, then spend dinner wishing you’d said no.
You give someone on your team honest feedback, then lie awake wondering if they still like you.
You tell everyone at home you’re fine, then feel hurt when nobody offers to help.

Together we look at the identity, standards and fears behind moments like that, so you can choose how you lead at work and how you show up at home.

UnconsciousI said yes again. Why did no feel so risky?

UncoverWhat actually went through my mind before I said yes? What did I feel in my body? What emotion was underneath that?

UnderstandWhat did I make that mean about me? Where did I learn that? Why do I keep doing it?

We use Keep Going™ to get underneath your first answer.

ChooseWhat do I actually want? What standard do I want to live by?

PractiseHow do I want to feel when I get home tonight? What’s one thing I can do today that honours what I actually want?

OFFERS & ENGAGEMENTS

Lead with intention.
Go home with something left.

Distinct avenues to clarify your leadership patterns, restore your energy, and make conscious choices that serve your team and your life.

00 / UNCOVER SESSION

Uncover Session

90 minutes · $350 AUD

Bring the thing you can’t shake. We’ll uncover why it hit so hard, and you’ll leave with a written summary of the pattern.

01 / COACHING

Leadership Coaching

12 weeks · $3,500

Bring the decisions you’re wrestling with. We’ll work through what your team needs, what you can hand over and what matters at home.

02 / SPEAKING

Speaking

Bring me into the room with your team. We’ll explore what makes honest feedback, setting boundaries and letting go of control feel hard.

03 / LEARNING

The course

See what’s behind the urge to say yes, prove yourself or keep everyone happy. Practise choosing what you want at work and at home.

ABOUT THE FOUNDER

Founded by
Stacie Skehan.

From school leadership to private enterprise and my own business, I kept meeting the same thoughts and behaviours. Learning to recognise what was driving me became the heart of The Unconscious Leader.

Stacie Skehan

FOUNDER & EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE COACH

What could change if you understood what's driving you?